Development of a child
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There are three sources of life-controlling perceptions. Source number one is genetics, which provides for instincts common to all humans, essential things such as automatically pulling your hand out of the fire. A second set of perceptions derives from the subconscious mind, the part that controls all the functions we don't have to think about. Once you learn how to walk, the program, to control walking, becomes part of the subconscious mind.
The Intelligence of cells
Every cell is an intelligent organism. You can remove it from the body, put it into a Petri dish, and it will manage its life: handle the environment, grow, reproduce and form communities with other cells. In the human body, we are dealing with a vast population of cells working together in harmony. In a culture dish, cells behave as individual entities. However, in a body cells act as a community; individuals cannot do whatever they want because then the coherence of the group will fall apart. Therefore, when cells come together in a community, they acquire a central intelligence that involves coordinating the activity of the individual cells in the group. The cells defer to the higher order of that central voice. A human organism is a community of upwards of fifty trillion cells operating in unison and harmony, trying to conform to the requests and demands of that central voice. And it is the central voice that acquires and learns the perceptions that we must deal with throughout our lives.
There are three sources of life-controlling perceptions. Source number one is genetics, which provides for instincts common to all humans, essential things such as automatically pulling your hand out of the fire. A second set of perceptions derives from the subconscious mind, the part that controls all the functions we don't have to think about. Once you learn how to walk, the program, to control walking, becomes part of the subconscious mind. You just have to have the intention of walking and the brain will coordinate the behaviour. The third source of perceptions is from the conscious mind. The conscious mind can rewrite any of the subconscious programs you acquired, and you can even go back and change the genetic activity. The conscious mind is unique because it can change an entire history of perceptions in order to engage in different behaviours and lifestyles.
How Do Babies Learn
In human development, when a sperm and egg come together their fate is presumed to be controlled by the inherited genes. The role of the woman in foetal development was primarily restricted to her contribution in regard to nourishment via the components of her blood that passes through the placenta to the foetus. But her blood contains a lot more than just nutrition. Blood contains all of the information molecules as well, such as hormones and emotional chemicals. The mother is always adjusting her physiology and her emotions to deal with the contingencies of life. Since her blood via the placenta is directed to the foetus, the foetus is experiencing and feeling what the mother senses. This is a super-intelligent idea on the part of Mother Nature. Since the foetus, when it is born, is going to live in the same environment that the mother perceives, the mother is helping the foetus “adjust” to current world conditions. If the mother sees the world as threatening, this sends entirely different signals to the foetus than if she perceives the world as a warm, supporting place.
When stress hormones cross the placenta they have exactly the same target sites in the foetus as they have in the mother. They cause the foetal blood vessels to be more constricted in the viscera, sending more blood to the periphery, preparing the foetus for a fight/flight behavioural response. In a developing fetus, this is going to enhance the development of the musculoskeletal system and make a bigger body, with a coordinated increase in the hind-brain function to control that response. In a real unstable world, this mother is creating a child that will have a great advantage because its ability to be a fighter and survive considerably enhanced. Yes, the genes control the unfolding of a body plan. But, how you increase some organs and take away from other organs, is based on the flow of information chemicals that are transported from the mother's blood into the placenta.
It is now recognized that when the child is born he is fully capable of experiencing almost all the emotions of adults. Newborns can express rage, jealousy, anger, love, and sadness. It turns out that both the mother and father are tailoring and shaping the child’s physiology and behaviour to fit their world. If the parents find the world troubling, their child will be affected. For example, when parents do not want a child, this information, in the form of emotional chemistry, is crossing the placenta! The foetus already knows that its support is not guaranteed. It is clearly important for us to recognize that creating a child is a crucial, dynamic, interactive process between the parents and the foetus. In fact, recent understanding of human pathology clearly reveals that issues that affect us as adults. Cardiovascular disease, cancer, and obesity, have their roots in the peri-conceptual, foetal and neonatal phases of life. The conditions under which a child is developing in utero profoundly shape her for the rest of her life in regard to behaviour and physiology.
When the child is born, it will stare into the faces of its parents and within hours, it learns to read their facial expressions. The reason for this is imperative—the facial expression of the parent serves to instruct the infant into its new world. As the child explores its world, if he encounters something “new” and the parent’s face expresses concern or fear, it immediately learns that thing should be avoided. The child will back away from whatever he perceives as threatening, and that is a healthy response to his life. Through this bonding and in all their interactions, the parents are programming the responses of the child. When parents are not there and do not follow through on this bonding, it leads to problems in development, referred to as attachment disorders. Such children have trouble focusing and express characteristics similar to attention-deficit disorder. Science has documented how responses to the world, which we acquired from our parents are profoundly important in shaping our physiology, our health and the diseases that we may experience later in life.
Fitting Into the Society
Here is how a child learns to fit rapidly into society: a child’s brain can download experiences at a super high rate of speed. From the moment, a child is born through about the first six years of life she is in a super-learning state. Children learn and assimilate from how we treat them and how we respond to each other. We understand through hypnosis that you can download information into someone’s subconscious mind and bypass the conscious mind. Why is this relevant? Because between birth and age six, the child’s EEG brain activity is operating in a hypnotic trance state, so that whatever the child is learning is being downloaded into the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind “records” and habitually plays back these programs. Think about all the rules of society, about every way we live, the nuances of our language. A three-year-old child can learn three different languages at the same time and not confuse their grammar, vocabulary or syntax. By age eight, or nine just learning one new language is difficult. What is the difference? When the child is under six, the conscious mind is not developed, so it does not interfere with the programming.
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